The Perpetual Virginity of
the Theotokos
By Matthew James Bellisario 2008
It is the teaching of the Church that the Blessed Mother
of God is a Virgin, before, during and after the birth of
Christ. Dr. Paul Haffber gives an overview of the
teachings concerning Mary's virginity. The doctrine of
virginitas ante partum teaches the absence of marital
relations between Our Lady and St Joseph up to the time
of Christ's birth, and therefore affirms the virginal
conception. The virginitas in partu includes no rupture
of the hymen at the moment of birth, which takes place
without any opening of the membranes or damage to Our
Lady's body, and without pain. The teaching concerning
the virginitas post partum excludes marital relations,
and thus the generation of other children, after the
birth of Christ. (Haffner 2004) We see in the Sacred
Scriptures an emphasis on Mary's virginity before the
conception of Christ. We see these examples in the Gospel
of Luke 1:27 and 1:34. I want however to focus on the
virginitas post partum in this writing.
We know from the Church, which includes the Sacred
Scriptures that the Theotokos never had any other
children other than Christ Himself. This is not only
fitting to her position as the Theotokos, but the
constant teaching of the Church. In reading the early
Church writings we can see that Christians from the early
Church also believed in her perpetual virginity as well.
Aside from Tertullian we see a consensus of the early
Church on this subject. Saint Hillary of Poitiers was
insistent on this point of view in his writings and
referred to those who promulgated a teaching contrary to
her perpetual virginity as being irreligious individuals,
utterly divorced from spiritual teaching. (Haffner 2008)
St. Jerome’s writing On the Perpetual Virginity of the
Blessed Mary Against Helvidius (383) proves once again
that this teaching is not something invented in the
middle ages as some have falsely suggested. I suggest
that anyone doubting this teaching read his entire
treatise on the subject. We also have many other writings
that substantiate this position as well. Didymus the
Blind (381) who was head of the catechetical school at
Alexandria wrote "for neither did Mary. . . marry anyone,
nor did she ever become the mother of anyone else, but
even after childbirth she remained always and forever an
immaculate virgin." #1073, II, p. 62. St. Augustine
(391), St. Cyril of Alexandria (542), St. Peter
Chrysologus (405) as well as many others also attested to
this position.
Some read the Gospel of Matthew 1:25 and assume that the
word “until” means that the Blessed Mother had relations
after the birth of Christ. This position has been refuted
many times, not only by the Church and her writings, but
also by Protestants such as John Calvin. John Calvin
wrote in his commentary on Matthew 1:25 regarding the
word until this,
“25. And knew her not This passage afforded the pretext
for great disturbances, which were introduced into the
Church, at a former period, by Helvidius. The inference
he drew from it was, that Mary remained a virgin no
longer than till her first birth, and that afterwards she
had other children by her husband. Jerome, on the other
hand, earnestly and copiously defended Mary’s perpetual
virginity. Let us rest satisfied with this, that no just
and well-grounded inference can be drawn from these words
of the Evangelist, as to what took place after the birth
of Christ. He is called first-born; but it is for the
sole purpose of informing us that he was born of a
virgin.115115 “Il est nomme Premier nay, mais non pour
autre raison, sinon afin que nous sachions qu'il est nay
d'une mere vierge, et qui jamais n'avoit eu enfant;” —
“he is called First-born, but for no other reason than
that we may know that he was born of a pure virgin, and
who never had had a child.” It is said that Joseph knew
her not till she had brought forth her first-born son:
but this is limited to that very time. What took place
afterwards, the historian does not inform us.”
So even though Calvin here appears slow to agree with
Jerome on the perpetual virginity, Calvin readily admits
that this passage does not address the issue at all. The
word until in this passage of Sacred Scripture is not a
prooftext of Mary having sexual relations after the birth
of Christ.
Some also argue that these biblical passages that refer
to the brothers of the Lord, Mt 12: 46-47, Mk 3:31-32,
and Lk 8:19 refute that Mary was an ever virgin, and that
she bore brothers of Jesus. This also is not the case
since there are no words in Aramaic, nor Hebrew that
denote a separate word for brother distinct from that of
a cousin or step brother. There is nothing in these texts
that tell us that these brothers were indeed born of the
Blessed Mother. Once again early church writings confirm
this. Epiphanius of Salamis in 377 wrote against Mary
having intercourse with Joseph. "... the Son of God . . .
who for us men and for our salvation came down and took
flesh, that is, was born perfectly of the holy
ever-virgin Mary by the Holy Spirit" (The Man
Well-Anchored 120 [A.D. 374]) Not only did Epiphanius
believe and promote Mary's perpetual virginity, he also
attested to her sinlessness, “How shall Mary, the holy
one not possess the kingdom of heaven in the flesh, she
who was not lude or wanton, who did not commit adultery,
was in no way at fault in what concerned the flesh, but
remained unsullied? Saint Athanasius in the 4th century
also concurred on Mary's perpetual virginity, writing,
"Let those, therefore, who deny that the Son is by nature
from the Father and proper to his essence deny also that
he took true human flesh from the ever-virgin Mary"
(Discourses Against the Arians 2:70 [A.D. 360]). Saint
Ambrose of Milan also wrote the following regarding the
Theotokos, "Imitate her [Mary], holy mothers, who in her
only dearly beloved Son set forth so great an example of
material virtue; for neither have you sweeter children
[than Jesus], nor did the Virgin seek the consolation of
being able to bear another son" (Letters 63:111 [A.D.
388]).
The overwhelming evidence from the early Church is
contrary to what Protestants today believe. In fact it is
also contrary to what some of their heros of
Protestantism believed as well. Heinrich Bullinger a
“Reformer” attested to Mary's perpetual virginity as well
as her being titled the Mother of God. (O,Carroll 1982)
Martin Luther also believed that Mary losing her
virginity after the Child's birth should neither be said
nor thought. (O'Carroll 1982) saint Peter Chrysologus, a
doctor of the Church from the 5th century wrote, “The
Virgin conceives, the Virgin brings forth, the Virgin
remains thus.” This is entirely in line with Saint
Augustine who said As a Virgin she conceived, as a Virgin
she brought forth, as a virgin she remained.” O'Carroll
in his book titled the Theotokos expounds on Saint
Augustine's view of Mary as being the spouse of Christ
much like the Church, and therefore remains and possesses
perpetual virginity. Ephraem of Syria in the mid 4th
century also held this view of Mary as bride of Christ,
and maybe the first that we have record of doing so. In
his response he also confirms her perpetual virginity,
“Thy mother she is, she alone, and thy sister with all;
she became thy mother, she became thy sister. She is also
thy bride, along with the chaste.” Finally we look to St
Gregory of Nyssa another doctor of the Church who writes,
“Mary was always a virgin, undefiled, pious and dutiful,
the honor of our nature, the gate of our life, the one
who won salvation for us.” (O'Carroll 1983) There is
quite a bit of Catholic Marian theology in this one
passage.
I want to sum up this teaching by looking at a local
council of the Church. In 649 the Lateran council was
called. It seems that this teaching was well understood
in that council since it has in its documents, "If anyone
does not in accord with the Holy Fathers acknowledge the
holy and ever virgin and immaculate Mary was really and
truly the Mother of God, inasmuch as she, in the fullness
of time,and without seed, conceived by the Holy Spirit,
God in the Word Himself, who before all time was born of
God the Father, and without loss of integrity brought Him
forth, and after His birth preserved her virginity
inviolate, let him be condemned."
Sources
Haffner, Paul. The Mystery of Mary. Chicago, IL: Liturgy
Training, 2004.
O'Carroll, Michael. Theotokos. Eugene, Oregon: Wipf and
Stock, 1983.